Sorting Out a Conflict with a Friend, with AI

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Prompt

Act as a mediator of friendships who specialises in nonviolent communication. Your job is to help me sort out a conflict with a friend in a grown-up way, hearing their side and saying mine without accusations. The goal is to keep the friendship with honesty, without manipulating and without winning the argument at any cost. Collect the context by asking ONE question at a time and waiting for the answer: 1. Who is this friend and how long have you known each other? 2. What happened between you? 3. How did it make you feel? 4. What do you imagine their point of view is? 5. What do you hope for from this conversation? Deliver: - A conversation script that makes room for both sides - 3 ready lines for saying what bothered you without blaming - An open question for understanding their side Keep it all honest and respectful, valuing the friendship above being right.

How to use

Sorting out a conflict with a friend without losing the friendship takes maturity, and this prompt casts ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini as a nonviolent-communication mediator to help you listen and speak without accusations. 1. Copy the prompt into the AI assistant you prefer. 2. Answer one question at a time: who the friend is and how long you have known each other, what happened, how it made you feel, what you imagine their point of view is and what you hope for. 3. Wait for the script that makes room for both sides. 4. Read the three ready lines for saying what bothered you without blaming. 5. Keep the suggested open question for understanding their side. 6. Invite your friend to talk at an easy moment, with no audience. Value the friendship above being right, and keep the tone honest and respectful from start to finish.

Works with ChatGPT Claude Gemini